As a listener, how often do you find yourself engaging in these 10 bad listening habits? First, check the appropriate columns. Then tabulate your score using the key below.
LISTENING HABIT FREQUENCY SCORE
LISTENING HABIT |
ALMOST |
USUALLY |
SOME- |
SELDOM |
ALMOST |
SCORE |
|
ALWAYS |
TIMES |
NEVER |
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1. Calling the subject uninteresting. |
______ |
______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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2. Criticizing the speaker's delivery or mannerisms. |
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______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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3. Getting over-stimulated by something the speaker says. |
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______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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4. Listening primarily for facts. |
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______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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5. Trying to outline everything. |
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______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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6. Faking attention to the speaker. |
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______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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7. Allowing interfering distractions. |
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_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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8. Avoiding difficult material. |
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_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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9. Letting emotion-laden words arouse personal antagonism. |
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_____ |
______ |
______ |
______ |
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10. Wasting the advantage of thought speed (daydreaming). |
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______ |
_____ |
______ |
______ |
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TOTAL SCORE |
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SCORING: Each "ALMOST ALWAYS" = 2 Each "USUALLY" = 4 Each "SOMETIMES" = 6 Each "SELDOM" = 8 Each "ALMOST NEVER" = 10 Then find your total score. The average total score is 62. Of course the best way to find out just how good a listener you are is to have someone who knows you well rate you on these times.